> > I cant find my friend tom online when i specifically know he is online we even sent screenshots to each other to prove it, all the games at the sides where different for some reason, how can i fix this so i can play him online, please help me

> On which server were you and on which server was your friend?

I've had similar trouble. I arranged to meet someone on XWIS, he showed up on the who's online site, we could page each other, and were in the same channel, but could not see each other.

meselfs himself!